In Haiti there is a herb racine called vervain. It is one of the few things Haiti exports. It is used in expensive perfumes. It is used many ways in Haitian Vodou. It is used in a lot of love spell love work. One way it is used is a perfume. It changes your smell. Haitian women believe it makes the man think of you, dream of you and want to be near you. They usually put it on his bed or other area as well as wear it them self. Visit my Etsy shop to order. The link is above.